Everything was revealed in the Bunshun Weekly newsmagazine on Wednesday evening. Sayaka Kanda committed suicide, leaving two suicide notes.
From the contents of the notes and surrounding circumstances, the direct causes were 1) the relationship with the actor whom she was co-starring with; and 2) the feeling of despair about the results of the medical examination regarding throat illness.
In addition, she was being treated for mental illness due to neglect she suffered in childhood and the fierce bullying she received in junior high school.
For the past seven years, she had been isolated from her mother Seiko Matsuda. It was Sayaka who was angry at Seiko's actions over their management firm and broke ties with her. The reason why Seiko did not attend Sayaka's wedding was that Sayaka did not even answer Seiko's phone. If you read the article, you can understand the circumstances and Sayaka's feelings.
It seems that these factors had accumulated and exceeded Sayaka's limit.
Regarding 1), it seems that she was desperate to get married, which is often seen in women in their mid-30s for fear of late childbearing. She approached the man aggressively, and he was overwhelmed and acted irresponsibly. In normal circumstances, it would be a waste of time to deal with such a man, but she probably had a narrow view.
Regarding the neglect she suffered in childhood, the repeated scandals concerning her mother have been widely reported in the press, but her father Masaki Kanda was also playing around. I think it's a matter of personal choice, but I feel that this kind of attitude has a great negative impact on children, and that a person who seeks an unstrained life and affairs should not become a parent.
Probably because they understand this, they said "I'm very sorry" at the beginning of the press conference.
As an analogy, athlete Tsuyoshi Shinjo seems to be free-spirited and popular with women, but that's why he chose to divorce his wife and have no children, and enjoy a single life. I think this is the attitude of a responsible adult.
In any case, couldn't Sayaka somehow have prevented suicide? I wish she could have gotten off the stage and concentrated on illness treatment and rest for the time being. The unfortunate childhood and bullying cannot be changed, but what to do in the future can be changed.
She may have felt pressured to succeed socially under her big parents. But frankly speaking, she would have received a legacy from them in the future and would not be in financial trouble for the rest of her life. It would have been okay just to play or do whatever she likes, and it's much better than committing suicide.
Anyway, Bunshun's ability to discover the truth in such a short period of time is amazing. I feel sorry for her and her parents, but I don't think there will be any subsequent suicides based on pointless assumptions, thanks to this informative and valuable report.
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